Sylvester, James “Jim” Clark

In loving memory of James “Jim” Clark Silvester
April 7, 1923 – February 13, 2025

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Dad quietly crossed the bar at home to be with the Lord Jesus in the early hours of February 13, with his daughter, son-in-law, and trusted dog companion Rocky, closely by him. Just about making his goal of 102.

Dad was born in a suite on the top of King Edward School in Winnipeg. He was the second son for Henry and Ellen Silvester. Later on, he was graced with another brother and a sister. Dad joined the RCN at the age of 16, and served in WWII in the Convoy duty in the North Atlantic. He moved up in ranks from Seaman to Petty Officer 1st Class. The war ended, and he was honourably released from service in 1946. That is when he married the love of his life, Gwen, on June 29, 1946. They were married for 62 years till Mom’s passing in 2008. They had two sons, Brian and Dale, born in Montreal, and one daughter, Brenda, born in Winnipeg. Dad had rejoined the RCN Reserves in 1955, and served as an instructor to young cadets at HMCS Chippawa in Winnipeg. He was released from that duty in 1965.

Dad had many hats with jobs, but settled as an Office Machine Technician at Great West Life in Winnipeg. Retirement came after 28 years with the company, and then Dad and Mom became snowbirds. They would travel to Texas from October to April each year, and enjoyed that for many years until they moved to BC to be with their daughter and family. After losing Mom, Dad stayed for a bit on his own, before moving into a suite below his daughter and son-in-law. That was his final destination.

A sport enthusiast and loving the Blue Jays, he was also very proud to complete quite a few 5k walks and being awarded many medals for his efforts. Dad enjoy, bowling, and was a handy man in many crafts. A life-time member of Chief and Petty Officers Association in the HMCS Chippawa as well as in Esquimalt. Dad was always full of laughter and jokes to anyone who would listen. He was caring, loving, and a superhero to his daughter.

Dad is predeceased by his parents Henry (1968)  and Ellen (1976) Silvester; brothers Harry (2013) and Thomas (2013); sister Mary (2011); the love of his life, Gwendoline (2008); and by his son, Brian (2010). He is survived by son Dale (Val) of Lawrencetown, Nova Scotia; his daughter Brenda (Joey) of Shawnigan Lake, BC; as well as 7 grandchildren and 17 great-grandchildren.

We want to thank the Cowichan Palliative Hospice team for their support and having him enjoy his days at home. Thank you also to Dr. Jody Anzarut for her care over the many years.

Dad is now at peace. A memorial service will be held at the Shawnigan Alliance Church (1603 Wilmot Ave) on March 22, 2025, at 1400hrs (2pm). Donations can be made to Chief and Petty Officers Veterans Assistance Society, or to a charity of your choice in Dad’s honour.

Dad has requested a burial at sea, which will be done at a later date.

Remember to love and hug your family and friends. Treasure all moments you have with them, for time goes by way too fast, and then they are gone.